In captivity, when the Prophet, (peace be upon him), passed by her, she said, "O Messenger of Allah, grant me a favor, may Allah grant you a favor, for the father has died and the visitor has gone (referring to her brother who had converted to Christianity and fled until he approached the land of Byzantine before he embraced Islam and became a good Muslim). Do not make the Arab tribes gloat over my misfortune because I am the daughter of the chief of my people. My father released the captives, protected the weak, served his guests, fed the hungry, alleviated the misfortunes of people, offered food, extended Salaam (the greeting of peace) and never declined to fulfill anyone’s need. I am the daughter of Haatim At-Taa’i."
The Prophet, (peace be upon him), said: "O young woman, these are the qualities of the believers, and had your father been a Muslim, we would have asked Allah to have mercy on him." He then said to his Companions: "Set her free, for her father loved noble manners." The Prophet, (peace be upon him), added: "But do not rush [to return home] until you have found a trustworthy person who can take you home, then let me know." A caravan of her tribe arrived and she wanted to go with them. She went to the Prophet, (peace be upon him), to seek his permission to go, and he gave her permission, dressed her in the best clothes he had, provided her with a mount and gave her supplies that would suffice her during the duration of the journey and beyond.
She went to her brother, ‘Adiyy ibn Haatim, may Allah be pleased with him, who was older than her, and wanted to invite him to Islam and guide him to goodness -- particularly after she had seen the kind treatment of the Prophet, (peace be upon him), and his Companions and had learnt about Islam and its virtues. Her brother asked her what should he do with 'that man' [the Prophet, (peace be upon him)].
Saffaanah, being the wise and smart woman took the opportunity to present the religion of Islam to her brother and invite him to it. She spoke to him in most compassionate and touching words. She told him about the noble religion and about its virtues. She told him about the Prophet Muhammad(peace be upon him) and how noble he was!
She said, "I suggest that you go to the man: if you find that he is a Prophet, you should follow him, for those who follow him first will be privileged. Otherwise, there would be no harm on you because you are very wise and insightful. As for me, I have embraced Islam."
Adiyy found this opinion sound and wise and set out to meet Prophet Muhammad(peace be upon him) in Madeenah. After his meeting with the prophet, he embraced Islam and entered the religion of Allah with utmost sincerity.
Thus, by inviting him to Islam, his sister earned the reward for guiding him to the true religion.
This is the story of Noble and honored female companion, Saffanah bint Haatim At-Taai, may Allah be pleased with her. How she embraced Islam ad how she invited her brother to it. Her father was famed for his proverbial generosity in the pre-Islamic era to the extent that he became an exemplar of generosity. Like her father, Haatim At-Taa’i, Saffaanah was known for her generosity and open-handedness.
It is said that her father used to give her camels from ten to forty in number, and she would give them away as gifts. Haatim said, "O my daughter, if two people behaved generously with money, they would waste it. Either I give and you withhold, or I withhold and you give. Otherwise, nothing would remain." She replied, "By Allah, I will never withhold." Her father said, "By Allah, I will never withhold either." She said, "So, we should not live with each other." Therefore, he gave her half of his money and they parted.
Saffanaah is an epitome of generosity and kindness. May Allah be please with her.