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If You Find Yourself Ugly And Want To Get Married Then Read This

Today we are going to introduce you with one of the dearest companion (sahaba) of PROPHET (PBUH). Do you know who is JULAYBEEB? No ok let’ begin. This is the story that moves my heart most. He is a man, who was poor, not only was he was poor; he was a person who was very unattractive. In fact, the ulama (scholars) even the sahaba used to describe him as hideous. There is no status for him in the society. Even his name was also ugly. We’re not meant to say that sahaba’s are ugly (i seek refuge from Allah) they are beautiful, but the name that he had was the unattractive name. His name was YULABEEB (RA). This hadith is in Sahih Muslim and part of it is in also, AT-Tirmidhi which is completely authentic.

One day PROPHET (PBUH) saw julaybeeb he grew older in age. PROPHET (PBUH) said to him O JULAYBEEB HOW ARE YOU? And he said Ya Rasul (PBUH) do you think the only women I will get is in Jannah. Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) understood what he’s trying to say that he is never going to get married in this life. Prophet (PBUH) replied you are going to get women from this world and also from the Akhirah.

Prophet (PBUH) came to this man and said to him ‘’ I want to ask for your daughter's hand’’ the man delighted and said ALLAH HU AKBAR its Prophet (PBUH) who ask for a daughter what a beautiful news this is the delight to eyes Subhan Allah. Prophet said it not for me the man asks then Prophet said it’s for Julaybeeb and suddenly his smile turned into a frown, hmm let me ask her mother first. So he went home and said the whole episode to his wife and she reacts like is this Prophet (PBUH) who Wants our daughter’s hand it’s a great honor. The man shocks her women by saying no it’s not for Prophet it’s for Julaybeeb. What we have a list of a better man for our daughter and you still ask me this. You know that we have proposals from the good and wealthier families but we refused them and now lowest of the low in the society and most hideous, we have to give our daughter to him?  No no please keep it away.

Their daughter was in the background and she listens the entire conversation between her parents.  She came out and said, what is this MOM and DAD? Prophet (PBUH) is on behalf of another man proposing that man to me, and you say no to Prophet (PBUH). By Allah I will not refuse the request of Prophet (PBUH) and Julaybeeb is the only man I will marry. When the news came to Julaybeeb, he was rejoicing and Prophet (PBUH) got the companions to look after him and donate so that he can get married.


Time passed and there was one of the battles. Julaybeeb was among the people who went into that battle and the battle went victoriously to the Muslims. After the end of battle what usually Prophet (PBUH) does he looks amongst the sahaba’s. There were great suhab’s who had martyred, Julaybeeb was also amongst them, everyone is looking for their relatives, brothers, husbands, sons etc. No one cares for Julaybeeb. But look at Prophet what is asking to everyone ‘’where is my Julaybeeb’’ note this ‘’where is my julaybeeb’’, only Prophet (PBUH) cares for Julaybeeb. Everyone is saying I don’t know anything about him YA Rasulullah (PBUH). Then after searching for some time, eventually Prophet (PBUH) finds Julaybeeb. He was fallen on the ground and there were seven enemies dead around him. When Prophet (PBUH) saw this image, he stared at him and his eyes flowed with tears. He said ‘’HE KILLED SEVEN OF THE ENEMIES OF ISLAM AND THEN HE WAS KILLED, JULAYBEEB IS OF ME AND I OF HIM’’ and repeated for three times. Julaybeeb had no other bed except the bed of the palms of Prophet (PBUH). Prophet (PBUH) carried him on his own forearms and was crying. Then suddenly his (PBUH) crying turned into a smile and buried Julaybeeb with his own blessed hands. Other Suhaba’s there as they notice every bit of Prophet asks him why you’re crying turns into smiling and looked away. Prophet replied (PBUH) I was crying for the loss of my family member Julaybeeb no one cared him but me then Allah showed me his place in Jannah. I saw his soul in Jannah and there was one of his wives from the HOOR AL AYN running towards him. So I smiled that finally, he got his wife which he wanted in Jannah. As she was running, the heel of her leg showed so I turned away I have no right to look at the wife of Julaybeeb....

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